Dear Denise: I’m nervous because I’ve never had knee-chest sex

I always orgasm and I like sitting up when we make love. He texted me and said he wants to do the knee-chest position, which sounds painful to me.

I had a look on Google and it’s confusing me. I’m meant to be the older woman. I am 36. I think he is teasing me.

It’s not that I am not sexually adventurous — I had my kids young and didn’t have the time.

What am I going to do? I am not sure it’s for me from what I have seen. I don’t know why he is not just happy with the sex life we have now. I know I am.

Answer: Don’t be so hard on yourself — he’s only having fun. The knee-chest position just requires some concentration to master.

This position, with vaginal rear entry, allows a woman to rest her upper body on the bed. With her head turned to one side, she can use a pillow for support.

This leaves both hands free and makes it much easier for her to reach down between her legs to add manual or battery stimulation while the man enters from behind.

It would be a good idea to use massage oil or spend time on oral sex before you try this position. Practice makes perfect — so enjoy.

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